We hesitate to admit it but our generation’s usage of cell phones and Facebook has terribly evolved users for the worse..... I am not denying that cell phones and Facebook are great ways of communication however it is a matter of regulating your use of them.
Turkle's statement “Traditionally, the development of intimacy required privacy. Intimacy without privacy reinvents what intimacy means." People these days are always “on call." Due to this, the process of independence has completely evolved, reinventing what we define as a rite of passage. The ability for parents to call and even text their children at any time is frightening and diminishes the transition into adulthood. Being 18 years old these days is equivalent to being 15.
“Parents can be brought along in an intermediate space, created by the cell phone,” this brings to question instant gratification. If I don’t answer my parents within ten minutes or so they either think I’m dying or doing something suspicious. Even though we may find our parents' instant gratification an annoyance, we are the ultimate victims. When we don’t get a response from our friends immediately or if someone takes a long time accepting a friend request we usually become frustrated and over analyze what we said. Digital conversation has become overvalued; there is a loss of tone and body language resulting in a false representation of our true selves.


